Why is it that the vast majority of sexual remedies created by scientists are for men?
As if Viagra, Cialis and such were not enough - a numbing spray has now been developed to assist men who ejaculate prematurely to have sex for about 240 seconds.
For some guys that is a long time.
Give yourself a spritz and wait 5 minutes – enough time to touch up with Just For Men.
Bingo! No more grey and ready to play.
EeeRected.
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This spray is an anesthetic – which means it deadens the over eager organ.
No research was been done on how this might effect the partner.
Seems to me -being penetrated by something saturated in Novocaine would prove equally effective in reducing the partners chances of reaching orgasm.
But then, hey – they’ll work that out another time.
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I’m not making light of a situation which I’m sure is very frustrating for the male that suffers it.
That said - I’d like to point out a few things:
Just because a guy cums too quickly – don’t mean he has to stop what he doing.
There are plenty ways to pleasure a partner that don’t necessarily include using his peter.
Too many men think once they get off, it all over.
Pish tosh.
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That brings me to the second point -
We don’t see advertisements for pills and potions that keep a woman going all night.
Little said about the sorry state of affairs in which women get short shrift in the orgasm department.
We just suppose to read Cosmo and figure it out ourselves?
Women still got to be sympathetic and silent, it seems.
Bah humbug!
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Thirdly, most men hate wearing condoms because – as I often heard them whine – they ‘can’t feel nothing’.
Don’t this sound like the answer in a nut shell?
Prolong the act out of shear frustration while protecting the partner from all sorts of worry – like about diseases and pregnancy.
Hmmm?
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There are many reasons why a guy can’t consummate – either prematurely or ever.
Most of these reasons are psychological/emotional.
Lots of causes for women not reaching climax too.
Rubbing something on or taking a pill ain’t going to fix what is awry in the personality or the partnership.
In fact, it makes everybody think all things can be taken care of pharmaceutically.
Also it reduces sexual relations to a purely physical act, which can be controlled or maintained by some outside source.
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This is my rule of thumb -
Sex is something you do by yourself.
Lovemaking takes a partner.
When you care for the person you with - their enjoyment means more than your own.
Do it with your whole being, not just your parts.
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Love,
LuRain
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http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/7987061.stm
P.S. - What do you call a woman with premature ejaculation?
Lucky.
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-lp(c)09-
Am too old to do it.
Nice post. Pc exercises don’t work for me that much, it’s more about distract myself when I felt like reaching an orgasm then claimed down a little bit, then continue.
It really requires some continual practises to solve premature ejaculation. And I found that doing some visualization exercises do help improving this condition.
You handling it the right way – with respect for both instruments –
and using the most reliable organ we got – our brain.
I wish you all the best.
Love,
LuRain
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Hi LuRain;
I have to agree with you on the context of this whole article and the last part about making love requires a partner is oh so true.
Sometimes it take a lifetime to figure these little things out eh?
Yeah, long after I stopped doing them, ha!